Christmas is right around the corner, and progressives are already trying to suck the fun out of it with a new public service announcement released by the Girl Scouts that calls on parents to not force their daughters to hug relatives over the holidays.
The reason? It's so the girls don't feel like they "owe" intimacy to people after they get older. Yes, even hugging family members has now been deemed "offensive!"
Here's the full PSA:
Holidays and family get-togethers are a time for yummy food, sweet traditions, funny stories, and lots and lots of love. But they could, without you even realizing it, also be a time when your daughter gets the wrong idea about consent and physical affection.
Have you ever insisted, “Uncle just got here—go give him a big hug!” or “Auntie gave you that nice toy, go give her a kiss,” when you were worried your child might not offer affection on her own? If yes, you might want to reconsider the urge to do that in the future.
Think of it this way, telling your child that she owes someone a hug either just because she hasn’t seen this person in a while or because they gave her a gift can set the stage for her questioning whether she “owes” another person any type of physical affection when they’ve bought her dinner or done something else seemingly nice for her later in life.
“The notion of consent may seem very grown-up and like something that doesn’t pertain to children,” says Girl Scouts’ developmental psychologist Dr. Andrea Bastiani Archibald, “but the lessons girls learn when they’re young about setting physical boundaries and expecting them to be respected last a lifetime, and can influence how she feels about herself and her body as she gets older. Plus, sadly, we know that some adults prey on children, and teaching your daughter about consent early on can help her understand her rights, know when lines are being crossed, and when to go to you for help.”
Give your girl the space to decide when and how she wants to show affection. Of course, many children may naturally want to hug and kiss family members, friends, and neighbors, and that’s lovely—but if your daughter is reticent, don’t force her. Of course, this doesn’t give her license to be rude! There are many other ways to show appreciation, thankfulness, and love that don’t require physical contact. Saying how much she’s missed someone or thank you with a smile, a high-five, or even an air kiss are all ways she can express herself, and it’s important that she knows she gets to choose which feels most comfortable to her.
Oh, for the love of Santa Claus, is there anything that is not policed these days?
If the progressives gets their way, the current generation of children will grow up to be politically correct robots who don't offend anyone, and apparently devoid of understanding healthy displays of affection.
This will in turn convert our country into the "safe space" the left wants it to be. It's ridiculous that someone can be accused of being a "bad parent" simply for telling his or her daughter to go give her Great Aunt Betsy a Christmas hug.